Hey Veronica here,
If you’re a woman looking for relationship advice that really works, then I’m glad you’ve found this website and I strongly suggest you keep reading…
Because this is my uncensored story of how I arrived at what I consider to be the ultimate method of learning to understand men and relationships. The ups, the downs, what stuff didn’t work, and finally the one thing that really works for virtually every woman who is trying to become The woman men adore.
You see, I used to struggle in my relationship with my husband. I would work really hard to try to understand him and go to all sorts of lengths to try to please him. When my efforts didn’t work I would turn to relationship books that seemed to be full of all kinds of wise ideas. I would try to make myself more attractive to him or I would try cooking fancy meals, but these things did not help me to make a connection with him. On the contrary, it just seemed like we became even more distant.
When these efforts left me frustrated I would commiserate with my girlfriends, and while it was therapeutic for me to get my frustrations of my chest, these turned out to be little more than bitching sessions, and did absolutely nothing for my relationship with my husband.
I would find myself standing in the checkout lines at the grocery store gazing at women’s magazines with their headlines promising secrets to better relationships. I bought a few of these and read them cover to cover, but all these magazines really do is propagate an unrealistic stereotype for women to live up to, and in reality it turns out that this stereotype is not what men are looking for in a relationship anyway.
Finally, quite by accident I stumbled across the solution, and the solution is The Woman Men Adore. This book by Bob Grant, L.P.C., is the result of his 17 years counseling women in relationships. The reason it is so effective is because it focuses on what men really want in relationships, rather than being based on a feminine interpretation of what men want. This is what I had been missing for so many years.
Now my relationship with my husband becomes more and more loving with each and every day, and the beauty of it is that I am putting far less effort into our relationship than ever before. I have learned to emphasize the things about me that made him fall in love with me in the first place, rather than trying to be something I am not. Being the woman my husband adores has never been easier.